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I cannot elaborate my personal problems fully. I had an affair during my school days. I was cheated by that boy. He was flirt and had many affairs. For so many years I did not hear from him. Now I am working in a software company. Unfortunately he is also working in the same building. He did not speak to me or dint take notice of me even though he saw me many times. He seems to be avoiding me. Now I am not able to concentrate in my work. I have recurring thoughts of suicide. Am I going mad sir? |
- Priya, Coimbatore Tamil Nadu |
Psychologist Solution |
You have to identify yourselves the exact nature of feelings you have for that guy. Is it love or revenge? Do you think that your problem would be solved if he takes notice of you and befriend your? Do you really aspire his love or friendship? Or is it of a revengeful nature? After identifying these things, show the guts to approach him and talk to him. It would be better if you could seek the help of a mature friend or Professional counselor. About the suicidal thought - Does it occur even when you are not sad or buy with your chores? (Then you should take it seriously and seek professional help) |
- Dr.Robin Mathew, Consulting Psychologist, Kerala, South India |
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